WISDOM FOR LIVING

WITH: Rev Prophet Samuel Brian Mulenga

ANCHOR SCRIPTURE:

And David went out to meet them, saying, “If you have come to me in peace to help me, my heart will be united with you; but if you have come to betray me to my enemies when my hands are free of violence, may the God of our fathers see it and judge you. 1 Chronicles 12:17.

LESSON: THE SPIRIT OF TEAM-WORK & THE MYSTERIES BEHIND KINGS-MAKERS.

Hear me the most greatest fears of a true Leader is not People leaving the church, kingdom, company, Team business, Marriage.

But the fear is always with people remaining in the same position UNCHANGED , After all series of teachings, all with everything within the energy of a leader ,but left with no growth results.

2. The other fears of a true leader ,is not whether you left or you where around, but it’s dealing with some Sons,Daughters and friends that pretends to be Loyal in our presence, but when they are out there ,Different Spiritual side chick’s all together, My father in the Lord of Blessed memories ,Prophet TB Joshua the senior man
   He wasn’t moved by this, but the truth is character is not the substitute of fear Sometimes.

David faced this challenges of people coming, in and out all in the name of vision Maker’s

Even after God anoiting him 16 times, in the sight of isreal ,but ended up a fugitive in the wilderness running for his life , later on with a strong prophesy of becoming a King One day, so you can tell alot had happened to him even to trust could be difficult ,betreyers, Spies came and went and by this time Destiny Kings Maker’s appeared ,so you can tell his reaction of disbelief to his Destiny connecters ,in 1 Chronicles 12:17 was not new to his calebar.

Now you need to understand in the school for thoughts

It’s not everyone that comes around your Vision,Company, Relationship and with you in Marriage is suitable for you.

The reason to why I tell you, is the most Dangerous people to be around with in, Church,business and marriage, are those who can do anyhow for themselves without thinking of others.

In this day and age, you need to prioritize 6 things listed below following:

1. Your relationship with God.
2. Your purpose in life.
3. Your Family.
4. Healthy friendships, Vision and connections.
5. Works.
6. Marriage.

But the success behind it all is we trust God and Once you decide to uphold his values in all you do:
Your integrity will go up and you will be trusted by God for greater assignments.

Remember: Success is not built by blending into the crowd, following trends, or sticking to the status quo.

If you’re doing what everyone else is doing, guess where you’ll end up? Right where everyone else is—average, struggling, and wondering why life feels so stagnant.

Beloved Success comes from standing out, not fitting in. Let me break it down for you.

POWER KEYS.

1. The Crowd is Comfortable, most people choose comfort over growth. They follow the herd, staying in their comfort zones, avoiding risk and repeating the same routines day in and day out.
2. Success demands the exact opposite, It’s about stepping into the unknown, embracing discomfort, and taking calculated risks that others are too afraid to touch.
3. Success is a Lonely Road, do you know why so few make it to the top? Because the path to success is not crowded, It requires discipline, focus, and the courage to go against the grain, When everyone else is partying, you’re working.
4. Success demands sacrifices most people are unwilling to make.
5. You Can’t Innovate by Copying, if all you do is mimic what others are doing, you’re a second-rate version of them, not a first-rate version of yourself, Innovation comes from thinking differently, questioning norms, and finding better ways to solve problems. Be the leader, not the follower.
6. The Masses Fear Failure, the majority play it safe because they fear failure. Successful men know that failure is a teacher, not a death sentence, Every setback is a setup for a comeback. Stop fearing what could go wrong and start focusing on what could go right.
7. The Rewards Are in the Risks the higher the risk, the higher the potential reward, Playing it safe will keep you average.
8. Greatness demands bold moves—starting that business, making that investment, taking that leap of faith, The masses wait for guarantees, but the successful create their own opportunities.
9. Mediocrity Loves Company
   Surround yourself with people who think small, and you’ll never grow. If your friends are content with mediocrity, it will rub off on you.
10. You Are the Exception
    The truth is, most people won’t make it. They lack the discipline, vision, and grit. If you want to be different, you need to act differently. Let them criticize, let them laugh— while they’re busy doubting you, you’re building the life they’ll envy.

THE BOTTOM LINE IS: You don’t become successful by following the herd.

You don’t win by doing what everyone else is doing, Success comes from making bold moves, thinking independently, and refusing to settle for less than your potential.

Stay focused, stay disciplined, and keep grinding. Be the exception, not the rule.

MY DISCREMER’S

1 The only way you can grow the VISION is by having people who are willing to run with it.

2 The only way you can grow your BUSINESS is by having knowledge to go about what people want not what you want.

3 The only way you can build your Marriage is by Taming your personal feeling, its not always as to be you but WE together( Sikuuka chabe at ine nili na mimba monga ndiwe silu) plan together the when to have ,
how to have .

3 TIPS THAT CAN HELP YOU BUILD.

1. In *LEADERSHIP people are not just interested in the leader.

But also in the attitude Behavior,Language,Loyalty Submission of those you appointed ,

it’s very difficult to manifest as a leader if your leaders have selfish motives and desires.

Ok imagine chabe ,you are closer to the president and all you will do is the things you want all you do is what you want and how you feel it, can you Still be trusted and still hold the position?

WE PLAY TOO MUCH IN CHURCH this year if you must see change and order in the church deal with those First who are closer to you before members, Let those who are closer to you.

. Work
. Know why they are there
. Let them be reporting
. Set up rules and regulations.

2. In BUSINESS make sure your services are Normal and balance your language and attitude is on point. Find out what the client wants don’t sell what you want deal with things people want.

. Be smart
. Go for quality
. Be the best.
. Be peaceful

3. *RELATIONSHIP: and MARRIAGE don’t do things against the wish of your partner No matter the pressure you may find yourself in, put preventive measures.

. Talk together
. Plan together
. Think together.

CONFUSION : is mainly caused by one partner thinking if I do it it’s ok she is going to forgive me or he is going to forgive me . Stop taking each other for granted.

GOD BLESS YOU